It has always been very stressful since the day 1 of sch...not bcuz of academic stress.... But...the deadly PROJECT group allocation...
Happened to had bad experience grping with ppl who dun work AT ALL...and all my grp mates were damn pissed... Therefore i felt that there is a need to be more careful when choosing grp mates...
sometimes some1 juz gotta be the bad person... when most in a grp claims unwillingness to grp with a particular person due to bad past experience but yet no one dares to speaks out...
when the person who dares to speak up becomes the most being hated....
I can totally understand the feel of being unwanted but there is too little time to allow proving that oneself have changed...therefore we can only judge base on past experience....
I felt guilty when rejecting but i am seriously not looking down or despise base on academic results...I always believe results does not prove anything...*as i am some1 who get nervous easily during exam*...and my results are not that fantastic at all...
Where in situation when there's insufficient grp members and help in sourcing around, wonder its being appreciated...cause its such an stressful thing....if the person u source does not perform & u are the closest person to blame.... Therefore I really appreciate when my mates source for members & asking ard...
*Sign*, sometimes we juz can't stay at the neutral state....
Like i've always said....No matter how good u are there will still be ppl hating u....& No matter how Bad a person can be, there will still be ppl who love them....
Reminds me of a really good lect i use to have in NYP....Guess my H6F will know who I am refering to.... He is like 1 of the best lect in the sch....who really puts in effort in trying to provide us with a better and more interesting learning experince in sch....
He puts in extra effort like giving out choc and sweets so that we do not fall asleep, performs magic in between lessons and conducting funny quizes....Also organise outings or gatherings with students to better uds them and keep a good r/s with them... and *alot more i can't finish*....
Seriously, in my opinion, a lect who teaches well and patiently anwers all my queries is really great...but he puts in double extra effort....
How nice if ppl who took the candies, enjoyed the magic and even had the slightest laugh at the jokes had ever appreciated his efforts....
Do u ever think that he deserves comments like...."all these things he do is SO FAKE!!"..but i've heard them....well, we can't stop ppl frm thinking this way....
I don't think so....but i guess this is LIFE!
What do u think he will benefit frm putting in these efforts?? all he wans is students to learn well....and score well....grad successfully... he will not blame u if u totally forget abt him after u grad....
Sometimes....APPRECIATION is all we need.....:)
Today, I vow that....I'll learn to show more appreciation to ppl who had helped me....
*super wordy today...finally got a chance to express my thoughts all these while...*
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